I Don’t Want to Complain Too Much
I am a high maintenance submissive. I’m well aware of the work that my Master has to constantly do to keep me happy and to keep him well-pleased. I’m not ashamed of it because that is who I always have...
View ArticleA Safe Call Could Save Your Life
From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 3-3-12 I was talking with a Dominant the other day about safe calls and how I feel that they are vital for a novice submissive when meeting someone new, especially...
View ArticleTrust is a Five Letter Word
from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 1/7/12 If you ask someone what the foundation of any relationship is they are likely to say one of three things. They are likely to say communication, compromise...
View ArticleAsk SehAnru | My Boyfriend/Dominant Won’t Allow a Safeword
I’m a submissive and my boyfriend is a dominant. I trust him fully and love that he pushes my limits. My problem is he won’t allow me a safe word. I only want it in case something is about to break, I...
View ArticleDeveloping Trust and The Proper Use of a Safe Word
Have you ever wondered why we use safe words in this lifestyle? I have pondered that a time or two and have always come to conclusion that it is what makes this lifestyle safe. Without them we are...
View ArticleIs Your Heart Truly In It? – Fulfilling Submission Needs Desire
I’m going to take a bit of liberty in my assumption here, but bear with me for a moment. When you first learn about submission and what it might entail it is likely you are learning about bedroom...
View ArticleJust How Much Trust do YOU Have?
Trust is a big factor in all relationships. I would even go as far to say that trust is an even bigger factor in D/s and M/s relationships than most others, but I could be wrong. How do you know when...
View ArticleTearing Down the Green-Eyed Monster – Handling Jealousy
From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 10/20/12 Jealousy. At one time or another we all have felt it. Handling jealousy when it comes to our partners is a trait we all should have, but many don’t. We get...
View ArticleAsk lunaKM – Can Trust Be Repaired When He’s Caught Cheating?
I am fairly new to the D/s lifestyle as I have been vanilla all my life…..but I feel I was born to be submissive as I am a submissive woman by nature. My Dom of 3 months who is a wonderful man is...
View ArticleAsk lunaKM – Entitled
Respectful Greetings Luna. I have a question. Currently involved/owned by a man who cant seem to focus on me long enough for us to build any kind of bond let alone any trust or relationship other then...
View ArticleKeys to a Successful Relationship – Honesty is Really the Best Policy
This is an ongoing series where I will be writing about key factors it takes to have a successful relationship. This second article is about the importance that honesty plays in our relationships. The...
View ArticleKeys to a Successful Relationship: Trust is Like a Mirror…
This is the third in an ongoing series where I will be writing about key factors it takes to have a successful relationship. This third article is about the importance of trust and the role it plays in...
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